The Silent Habits That Slowly Kill Your Joy.

 You work very hard, get good bi-weekly income. You engage in heavy drinking and feasting after receiving your salary with friends and by the end of the third week, pockets are empty; you lack taxi fare.

What instead of using a dime out of your income, you get to house and pray first on the money? What about saving 20% of it before getting into any expenses?

Experience has revealed that money that's not blessed is always not well used.It seems as if problems have eyes. This is because problems mostly surface when money enters someone's pocket. Alcohol consumption, sickness  just to name a few.

 Make a plan each time you're about to receive money.Praying on your money sends away every plans of the devil. It also makes you calm and feel in control and discipline with how you manage it.

From today, always make a schedule before receiving your hard earned money. Write the plan and strictly follow it . 

Failing to plan is the reason you get into careless drinking only lack taxi fare the next day. You may even be unable to feed yourself not to talk of house rents and hospital bills.

Failing to plan is planning to fail. Have a guide that directs the way you use your money. With this, you  avoid slowly killing your joy; living your happy life.

Awah Aweh R., 

Happiness Coach,

Personal Development Copywriter.

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Why Success Doesn’t Always Lead to Happiness

 You have been longing to get married to a rich man who can provide what you desire. Yes, you find one who cannot impregnate you and does not border meeting a doctor.You have succeeded, but are you happy?

Why not look for someone who has a basic income level? What about a man who's healthy, understanding and ready to work and bring up a family with you?

Going after a man because of money or wealth has led many women to the wrong partner.Partners with terrible characters.Some managed things to a certain level and finally abandoned the relationship. Others struggled and finally adopted children. Some died while there.

Never get married to a man because he's financially up to date. Finances is just one of the aspects to be considered. Others include state of health, family background,  childhood character, level of education, environment and present character.

Remember, no one is perfect and old habits die hard. Take your time, do the necessary checks,pray hard before getting into any marriage agreement. Only God joins two who become one. 

Let money not be bait for a husband. This has often turned joy into sadness when expectations are unfounded. Yes, success turned into unhappiness.

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Awah Aweh R. 

Happiness Coach.

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Trees Teach Us That Growth Requires Patience

 You just won a lottery worth $5,000 and bought a dream car. With little knowledge of driving, you took it out went  knocked and killed someone riding on a bike. 

Why not hire someone who's a goo driver to carry you around if you were in a hest to enjoy your dream car? Why not create time and get into a driving to update your knowledge?

To achieve anything requires patience. When a seed is planted, it germinates gradually  producing roots for stability and nutrition ,stem, branches , leaves, flowers and fruits. No stage is skipped .It also withstand other climatic challenges like heat, cold, strong wind, just to name and   yet we eat mangos from it at the right times.

This teaches us that growth requires patience. You will likely include focus because the tree does not move from place to during growth.So patience and focus must be employed if any real success is expected.

Today, as you plan to buy a dream car, endeavor to acquire knowledge in driving.Be patient. Never get into a car when you don't have full knowledge in driving. That can cost you more than what you purchased the car with; even your life.

If you are patient, most of your problems will solve themselves. A Mango tree is not easily pulled down by a tornado because it took time to its roots firm down. All because of a patience, a lesson you should learn.

Patience is a little habit that grows happiness. Most patient ones always reflect honestly and engage in meaningful conversations.

Oceans Teach That One Can Be Both Calm,Chaos, Gentle and Strong

 Some days you feel calm and in control, and other days everything inside you feels messy and overwhelming.

You start to wonder if something is wrong with you for being both peaceful and chaotic at the same time.

But what if nothing is wrong with you at all?

What if you are simply human—capable of holding different emotions at once, just like the ocean?

The ocean is calm on the surface some days and wild on others, yet it remains powerful and whole.

In the same way, your quiet moments and your storms both belong to you—they don’t cancel each other out.

You don’t have to choose between being gentle or strong, calm or chaotic.

True balance comes from accepting that you can be all of these things at different moments and still be growing.

Start noticing your emotions without judging them or trying to “fix” them immediately.

If you want a deeper guide to understanding these feelings, Why Am I Not Happy: Understanding the Root Causes of Unhappiness will help you reconnect with yourself step by step.

Just like the ocean, your depth is your strength, not your weakness.

Learn to flow with your waves, and you will slowly find peace within your own rhythm.

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Flowers Teach Us That Beautiful Things Do Not Bloom All Year Long.

 You are 70 years old but you keep engaging yourself in sporting activities like the 1000 km relay race with young adults. In one such event you could not meet up and was rushed to the hospital where much money was spent to give you energy.

Instead of trying to compete with people younger than yourself, why not get into sporting activities that will not require much energy? What if you actually get to a gym and ask the instructor the type of sport that will be good for you?

As you age, your system wears out. This means what you used to do when you were 20 years old could not be done at 70 because your flesh and bones get weak with time.

Flowers send this message to you on a daily basis but you fail to use it to your advantage. You see a very bright, beautiful and attractive flower now; four months later, the attractiveness and beauty is gone.  The message here is that you do your best when you're young and energetic. Make use of early opportunities.

If you're a youth today, take advantage of your youthfulness to achieve more, be it in education, business, or any field you find yourself in because of the energy you possess. Opportunity comes but once. 

The opportunity you miss today may never come back because beautiful things do not bloom all year long.Thank any flower around you and stay happy always.

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Awah Aweh R.

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